Sep 5, 2021Egg freezing, would I do it again?Because of my blog series on freezing my eggs in my early thirties a lot of people have contacted me over the years, some friends and some strangers. Some of these are people considering freezing their own eggs, others are going through a fertility journey where egg extraction is likely…Fertility3 min readFertility3 min read
Jul 4, 2021(Passion): Planning the big pictureI just did my six month check-in for my Passion Plan, a process I currently use to focus on the bigger picture. I use a paper planner, called https://passionplanner.com/, to help integrate higher level aspirations into my mundane day-to-day tasks. …Productivity7 min readProductivity7 min read
Dec 28, 2020Birth story of my second kiddoBirth goals — For the births of both children, my target was a healthy mom (A), healthy baby (B), and to avoid major surgery (C). For my first birth, as a first time mom, I decided to go about this by birthing in a hospital. I had a doula, labored at home as…Birth16 min readBirth16 min read
Oct 11, 2020Part 3, tandem edition: Breastfeeding a Toddler and a NewbornThis is the third post in my breastfeeding series. Part 1, One Year of Breastfeeding: A Celebration Part 2, Breastfeeding: The Twelve Month Event Horizon I’ve been delighted to continue to breastfeed my toddler past one year, and recently we passed our two year mark. Breastfeeding a toddler came with…Breastfeeding10 min readBreastfeeding10 min read
Oct 11, 2019Breastfeeding: The Twelve Month Event HorizonThis is the second post in my breastfeeding series. Black holes are objects so massive that nothing, not even light can escape them. The so-called “event horizon” marks the boundary around the black hole; cross this event horizon and there is no turning back. As a space traveler crossing into…Breastfeeding6 min readBreastfeeding6 min read
Sep 21, 2019One Year of Breastfeeding: A CelebrationBefore I had a baby, I looked at other babies with the same affection I looked at my morning alarm. I knew I had it in me to be a good mom. Maternal was another matter. I wasn’t certain I would be overwhelmed by motherly warmth. I was happy to…Breastfeeding34 min readBreastfeeding34 min read
Nov 26, 2017Who Fears Death, Nnedi OkoraforOver the next five months, I’m reading and reviewing ten pioneering works of science fiction written by women. This is my eighth pick. Stay tuned for more. Who Fears Death is the coming of age story of Onyesonwu as she becomes a sorceress and hunts her father, the sorcerer who…Science Fiction3 min readScience Fiction3 min read
Nov 26, 2017Ancillary Justice, Anne LeckieOver the next five months, I’m reading and reviewing ten pioneering works of science fiction written by women. This is my seventh pick. Stay tuned for more. Ancillary Justice is a space opera set during the tail end of the Radchaai empire’s heyday. The empire is a human civilization driven…Gender3 min readGender3 min read
Nov 7, 2017Moving the Mountain, Charlotte Perkins GilmanMoving the Mountain, Charlotte Perkins Gilman Over the next five months, I’m reading and reviewing ten pioneering works of science fiction written by women. This is my sixth pick. Stay tuned for more. Moving the Mountain (1911) is a novel whose plot is thinly veiled over the author’s political vision for the future. After thirty years…Science Fiction3 min readScience Fiction3 min read
Nov 7, 2017Her Smoke Rose Up Forever, James Tiptree Jr.Over the next five months, I’m reading and reviewing ten pioneering works of science fiction written by women. This is my fifth pick. Stay tuned for more. Alice B. Sheldon was an explorer, painter, Army Major, psychology Ph.D., socialite, and CIA agent. She is most known as the science fiction…Science Fiction5 min readScience Fiction5 min read